350driver wrote: ↑Mon May 18, 2026 3:53 pm
This toxicity between employee groups at AC isn’t even unique to Air Canada. It’s basically a reflection of Canada as a whole.
Here’s a simple example that’ll showcase the deeper systemic issue.
Imagine sitting at a red light in a beat up Ford Pinto. Wife beside you looking fat and rough, obese kid in the back seat, life clearly not going according to plan.
Now imagine a Ferrari pulls up next to you. Guy driving it is relaxed, minding his own business, 10/10 woman in the passenger seat (or dude if you identify that way).
What’s your honest first reaction?
Probably not positive.
Maybe a scoff. Maybe a sarcastic comment. Maybe just resentment sitting quietly in your head while you convince yourself life is unfair.
My favorite reaction is the one who says "I wouldn't give a @#$!" which is such a passive aggressive Canadian comment when ALL they do is give a @#$! deep down inside, but convince themselves they don't, so they don't off themselves. Moving on...
So here’s the question.
Is the Ferrari guy the problem? Or is your reaction to him the problem?
Because if you ask the Pinto guy why his life looks the way it does, you’ll hear every excuse imaginable.
If you ask the Ferrari guy, he’ll tell you the Pinto guy is drowning in excuses and that’s exactly why he’s still sitting there bitter.
That dynamic plays out every single day in Toronto, Vancouver, Montreal at every other traffic light.
Now obviously Canadians love sympathizing with the Pinto guy.
“What if he didn’t have the same opportunities?”
“What if he has disabilities?”
“What if life wasn’t fair to him?”
That’s the default Canadian mindset. Endless justification for why someone isn’t succeeding.
But the part Canadians hate admitting is maybe the Ferrari guy clawed his way out of disaster. Maybe he was staring homelessness in the face at one point and decided he’d never live like that again.
Instead, people automatically hate the guy who has more than them.
That mentality is especially strong in Canada right now because people are watching their quality of life collapse in real time while a minority around them appears to be winning. Savings shrinking, housing exploding, morale dead, and nobody wants to openly say they’re sick of watching their neighborhoods inundated by foreigners and dalilwal dancing turban's.
So what happens?
Someone points out toxicity between departments at AC, which is honestly just a symptom of broader Canadian culture, and immediately the apologetic Canadian responses show up.
“You’re the problem.”
“If you don’t like it, leave.”
“Go fly for Emirates then.”
Sound familiar?
That’s the Canadian attitude in a nutshell. If you point out dysfunction, YOU become the issue. The system itself is apparently never allowed to be criticized. Funny enough, we are such an open society with desire for feedback to improve. RIGHT?!? Wrong. Just at face value. Deep down, we hate feedback.
Now before people twist this into some worship the rich bullshit.
No, not every idiot with a Ferrari and a gold digger is worth admiring. @#$! no. Been there, lived that life, had the fun, and it honestly means less than people think it does.
But here’s reality.
FA’s and pilots are not equal in marketplace value.
That doesn’t mean one group has less human worth. It means the marketplace values different roles differently.
The issue isn’t that FA’s don’t understand that deep down. The issue is a lot of them feel massively underappreciated because they were sold this fantasy that putting on the uniform made them “special.”
Usually a career pursued by people who don't feel special TYPICALLY due to messed up parents, upbringings, experiences, etc. So the concept of the UNIFORM and TRAVEL makes them think this could be THEIR win in their miserable lives.
Then reality hits.
They realize where they actually sit in the hierarchy, and some completely lose their minds over it. Especially when influencers and OnlyFans girls are flying around in Gucci and Birkins while some 50,000 seniority number FA is reusing the same thong because crew scheduling destroyed their month; staring down 25 years of Reserve in YVR.
People are not equal economically. That’s reality. Canadian's are trying to equalize the market place, but the reality is, you can't. Otherwise it's no longer a market.
Human rights wise? Yes, everyone is equal.
But those are two completely different conversations.
Should cabin crew getting J class deadheads be treated like some human rights issue? No.
Should cabin crew be able to bump pilots out of commutes through seniority pass systems? Also no.
Should cabin crew get the first access to hotel rooms instead of the pilots? No.
Yet AC treats a lot of that as perfectly acceptable.
And if you disagree with the system?
Well, according to the Canadian mindset, YOU are now the problem for noticing it.
“How dare you say anything, Stu.”
Thank @#$! I spent 25 years at EK, came back, grabbed the 12 month upgrade, and now I’m basically on the way out toward retirement.
Sure, younger guys will celebrate older guys like me leaving the industry.
But here’s the funny part.
I still got the Ferrari.
I still got the 10/10 flight attendant without an HR case.
I am married happily.
My one kid just got into Yale, the other just got scouted to hopefully hit the NHL draft... even if he won't, he has other successes brewing.
My wife is hot (15 years younger)
I've made millions from the disposable cash I've had.
I am leaving AC at 55 just to get my CWIPP and pad my family trust so that my kids have an even better life later
So many more experiences and memories I've made with my friends and family I can't even name. But I am in my 50's and look younger than most of my FO's in their 30's. So I like to think I lived a good life.
Now for AC, I dislike 10% of my colleagues in the right seat, I dislike 50% of my colleagues in the cabin. I dislike 80% of my colleagues at the gate.
But you keep celebrating your WIN by thinking I am the problem when all of you are terrified to even ask the girl at 3L out for coffee because you think HR is hiding behind the galley curtain waiting to end your career, only to find out that you even assuming the girl at 3L was a girl is now the ACTUAL hr case cause how DARE you ask ''her'' for ''her'' number when she's a non binary.
So keep celebrating guys like me retiring. What you're left with is much much worse than guys like me, Stu, and altiplano calling it out for what it actually is.
Stu is absolutely on point.
Like Altiplano says (even though we have a dislike for one and another on here), some FA's are absolutely great. 50% are not.
As a new hire, if you choose AC, it's not for the job satisfaction. It's for the other plays that come along with it if Canadian life is a life you still value. If not, go out and explore the world until you find a place you enjoy calling home. The risk? You'll maybe be sitting in a Ferrari at a traffic light while Iran sends a SHAHEED 214 into the Fairmont hotel you were about to go and bang that Russian escort at.
Sorry if this post came off classless. Those of you who understand the deeper meaning I'm conveying understand exactly what it is I am saying and appreciate the comedy behind it.
Does the 50 some year old me actually think I am better than anyone? @#$! no. But I took a lot of risks unlike my Canadian peers, and many of them paid off. I also just witnessed a friend take a DEC risk at EK only to have nukes land 10nm away from his house.
So the million dollar question, do you take a risk and go after what you have in your mind, or do you sell yourself to AC and ignore the BS as a means to stay happy and fulfilled? Neither is better than the other, it's all a personal choice based on your personality style.
Pick your lane, but don't scoff at the guy who doesn't, and ends up having everything you thought was impossible.
That last sentence could really help advance a lot of Canadian's out of their shitty mentalities.
Let's be real, no one will read this post so I am going to go and shine the sunlight on my ass hole here at Lake Simcoe for Test boosting. Try it, it works wonders on us toxic men post 50. Use discretion if you actually try it, I am a pilot, not a medical professional.