May I ask a sensitive question?
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May I ask a sensitive question?
I can not figure out why some people hold so much animosity towards those of us who are guilty of being old?
Will they still have such strong feelings of resentment and disdain for old people when or if they get to be old?
Will they still have such strong feelings of resentment and disdain for old people when or if they get to be old?
The hardest thing about flying is knowing when to say no
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
You're too sensitvie Cat! LOL
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
Yeh, for sure I'm real sensitive.....
However the question could be.
However the question could be.
The hardest thing about flying is knowing when to say no
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
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No one cares that you're old unless they're a total prick cat. In those cases you'll be better off if you can learn to ignore them.
Some people probably don't like that you're moody and crotchety. Typically if a normal person makes a mistake and especially if they want to hide that mistake, they feel threatened when some bully comes barking at them.
You know how I made what seemed to me like an obvious reference to Charlie Sheen but instead you wanted it to be about you in a thread where Howard Huges came up? That happens because when we read things we process the text through our filters. These filters are affected by mood, experience who we speak with in real life and our sense of humour or lack there of.
That's what happens sometimes here with everybody. People feel threatened because you're telling them they made a mistake even though they knew that. Then you go on to tell them how you never made that mistake. Sometimes people just need a hug but if no one is available to hug them they need to work through that.
One way is to get angry and bite back.
You might not have noticed but I myself have never been hit by a prop. I even was awarded a certificate for it.

Now I have cause to be quite proud of such an achievement, you might even be impressed by it, but if you came here to post that you or a close friend had the missfortune to be hit by a prop and I showed you my certificate you might get upset.
Does any of this help?
Some people probably don't like that you're moody and crotchety. Typically if a normal person makes a mistake and especially if they want to hide that mistake, they feel threatened when some bully comes barking at them.
You know how I made what seemed to me like an obvious reference to Charlie Sheen but instead you wanted it to be about you in a thread where Howard Huges came up? That happens because when we read things we process the text through our filters. These filters are affected by mood, experience who we speak with in real life and our sense of humour or lack there of.
That's what happens sometimes here with everybody. People feel threatened because you're telling them they made a mistake even though they knew that. Then you go on to tell them how you never made that mistake. Sometimes people just need a hug but if no one is available to hug them they need to work through that.
One way is to get angry and bite back.
You might not have noticed but I myself have never been hit by a prop. I even was awarded a certificate for it.

Now I have cause to be quite proud of such an achievement, you might even be impressed by it, but if you came here to post that you or a close friend had the missfortune to be hit by a prop and I showed you my certificate you might get upset.
Does any of this help?
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
after reading the Jazz runway thread.... I'm inclined to change a word in that statement.Cat Driver wrote:I can not figure out why some people hold so much animosity towards those of us who are guilty of being old?
replace "old" with "Hedley."
I've never met any of you, nor do I dabble much here... While I defer with respect to your years crafting your skills and experience, I must say i find it unsettling when individuals (especially aviators) feel they are unfallible.
Perhaps its something lost in translation between the generations, but some of the posts in that freshed locked thread (and I suspect this is a reaction to it) came across as general derision when nothing constructive is added to the discussion.
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
Move over .. I was called both Persnickity (What ever the hell that means) and old and set in my ways. As a paramedic being set in my ways has served me well. As for persnickity, I told him to FO. 
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
I am old and I can still get "it" up without the aid of those blue pills...........

Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
"Old" rocks, Cat!!
ha haa haaa!!
Beers all around -- life is short -- let's enjoy it!!
ha haa haaa!!
Beers all around -- life is short -- let's enjoy it!!
Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
Gross.Old fella wrote:I am old and I can still get "it" up without the aid of those blue pills...........
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
As I said some things can be sensitive to some people, when I read Old Fella's post I took it as jest, especially with all the smileys attached.Gross.
However the same blue pills comments are often posted as a put down of the older generation...so it is all in how one thinks.
The hardest thing about flying is knowing when to say no
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
"Cat" it has nothing to do with age. The only people who brought up age are the ones you feel got punked. You guys brought it up to say how, or what seemed like, superior you all were. Nobody cares about age, atleast I don't.
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
I can only speak for myself and I feel far from superior, in fact I have often stated that there were times I can only credit luck or some other factor for having survived a few close calls.You guys brought it up to say how, or what seemed like, superior you all were.
Having said that I also knew when to say no or lets get out of here now because I sensed or knew things were going sideways.
For sure as time passed I was better able to make decisions based on experience that kept me alive......I use the word " me " because I knew if I finished the trip safely all those in the airplane with me would also have arrived alive. .
The hardest thing about flying is knowing when to say no
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
I've been up raised in life by old people...has a matter of fact, they teach me everything i know up to this point.
No better place for me than being at work with an old "Dude"...Your alway's in for a surprise that you wouldn't never expect.
The gift of information is priceless...and the story's?? No match!!
Cant help but thinking of Arnie in"buffalo nwt" ....who wouldn't kill for a mentor like him???
And o.....No better pay than seeing satisfaction in an old man's eye while watching you perform what he teached you!!
No better place for me than being at work with an old "Dude"...Your alway's in for a surprise that you wouldn't never expect.
The gift of information is priceless...and the story's?? No match!!
Cant help but thinking of Arnie in"buffalo nwt" ....who wouldn't kill for a mentor like him???
And o.....No better pay than seeing satisfaction in an old man's eye while watching you perform what he teached you!!
Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
Since you're asking, I'll be brutally honest. For me it has nothing to do with age. But Cat, I enjoy reading approximately half of your posts, those are the ones you offer real advice without sarcasm or real stories that we can learn from. The other half are a mix of repetitive sarcastic remarks, off topic loaded questions, or complaints about how these posts are received (such as this topic). Frankly, this latter half of your posts are somewhat tiresome mainly due to the repetition.
Don't get me wrong Cat, I like the former half of the posts mentioned above, but it is threads like this that just make me roll my eyes.
Don't get me wrong Cat, I like the former half of the posts mentioned above, but it is threads like this that just make me roll my eyes.
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
I dont think, and I certainly hope not, that anybody here has any issues with old people. But age isn't always an indication of wisdom or intelligence.
I dont have anything against your posts at all and I think it would be a loss to this community if you weren't here. I may not always agree with you, but age has nothing to do with it.
Same goes with Hedley. The stuff from the Jazz thread has NOTHING to do with age. He was dishing out a lot of sarcasm and didn't seem to respond well when I dished it back. I felt he was trashing and disrespecting Jazz employees as a whole. In the very same post though, both you and Doc took a similar stance on the issue as he did, but neither of you did so in a disrespectful or immature way.
I dont have anything against your posts at all and I think it would be a loss to this community if you weren't here. I may not always agree with you, but age has nothing to do with it.
Same goes with Hedley. The stuff from the Jazz thread has NOTHING to do with age. He was dishing out a lot of sarcasm and didn't seem to respond well when I dished it back. I felt he was trashing and disrespecting Jazz employees as a whole. In the very same post though, both you and Doc took a similar stance on the issue as he did, but neither of you did so in a disrespectful or immature way.
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
Id also like to go on record and say that Im not a Justin Bieber fan, although I am a little jealous of his cool hair. 
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
Not yet.Cat, you ever ground loop?
And I haven't landed with the gear up on land or down on the water yet.
The hardest thing about flying is knowing when to say no
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
This is something to think about when negative
people are doing their best to rain on your parade.
So remember this story the next time someone
who knows nothing and cares less tries to make
your life miserable.
A woman was at her hairdresser's getting her
hair styled for a trip to Rome with her husband..
She mentioned the trip to the hairdresser, who
responded:
" Rome ? Why would anyone want to go there?
It's crowded and dirty.. You're crazy to go to
Rome . So, how are you getting there?"
"We're taking Continental," was the reply. "We got
a great rate!"
"Continental?" exclaimed the hairdresser..
" That's a terrible airline. Their planes are old,
their flight attendants are ugly, and they're always
late. So, where are you staying in Rome ?"
"We'll be at this exclusive little place over on
Rome'sTiber River called Teste."
"Don't go any further.. I know that place.
Everybody thinks its gonna be something special
and exclusive, but it's really a dump."
"We're going to go to see the Vatican and maybe
get to see the Pope."
"That's rich," laughed the hairdresser. You and a
million other people trying to see him. He'll look
the size of an ant.
Boy, good luck on this lousy trip of yours. You're
going to need it.."
A month later, the woman again came in for a
hairdo. The hairdresser asked her about her trip
to Rome.
"It was wonderful," explained the woman, "not
only were we on time in one of Continental's brand
new planes, but it was overbooked, and they
bumped us up to first class.. The food and wine
were wonderful, and I had a handsome 28-year-old
steward who waited on me hand and foot.
And the hotel was great! They'd just finished a
$5 million remodeling job, and now it's a jewel,
the finest hotel in the city. They, too, were
overbooked, so they apologized and gave us their
owner's suite at no extra charge!"
"Well," muttered the hairdresser, "that's all well
and good, but I know you didn't get to see the
Pope."
"Actually, we were quite lucky, because as we
toured the Vatican, a Swiss Guard tapped me on
the shoulder, and explained that the Pope likes to
meet some of the visitors, and if I'd be so kind as
to step into his private room and wait, the Pope
would personally greet me.
Sure enough, five minutes later, the Pope walked
through the door and shook my hand! I knelt down
and he spoke a few words to me."
"Oh, really! What'd he say ?"
He said: "Who the F_ _k did your hair?"
people are doing their best to rain on your parade.
So remember this story the next time someone
who knows nothing and cares less tries to make
your life miserable.
A woman was at her hairdresser's getting her
hair styled for a trip to Rome with her husband..
She mentioned the trip to the hairdresser, who
responded:
" Rome ? Why would anyone want to go there?
It's crowded and dirty.. You're crazy to go to
Rome . So, how are you getting there?"
"We're taking Continental," was the reply. "We got
a great rate!"
"Continental?" exclaimed the hairdresser..
" That's a terrible airline. Their planes are old,
their flight attendants are ugly, and they're always
late. So, where are you staying in Rome ?"
"We'll be at this exclusive little place over on
Rome'sTiber River called Teste."
"Don't go any further.. I know that place.
Everybody thinks its gonna be something special
and exclusive, but it's really a dump."
"We're going to go to see the Vatican and maybe
get to see the Pope."
"That's rich," laughed the hairdresser. You and a
million other people trying to see him. He'll look
the size of an ant.
Boy, good luck on this lousy trip of yours. You're
going to need it.."
A month later, the woman again came in for a
hairdo. The hairdresser asked her about her trip
to Rome.
"It was wonderful," explained the woman, "not
only were we on time in one of Continental's brand
new planes, but it was overbooked, and they
bumped us up to first class.. The food and wine
were wonderful, and I had a handsome 28-year-old
steward who waited on me hand and foot.
And the hotel was great! They'd just finished a
$5 million remodeling job, and now it's a jewel,
the finest hotel in the city. They, too, were
overbooked, so they apologized and gave us their
owner's suite at no extra charge!"
"Well," muttered the hairdresser, "that's all well
and good, but I know you didn't get to see the
Pope."
"Actually, we were quite lucky, because as we
toured the Vatican, a Swiss Guard tapped me on
the shoulder, and explained that the Pope likes to
meet some of the visitors, and if I'd be so kind as
to step into his private room and wait, the Pope
would personally greet me.
Sure enough, five minutes later, the Pope walked
through the door and shook my hand! I knelt down
and he spoke a few words to me."
"Oh, really! What'd he say ?"
He said: "Who the F_ _k did your hair?"
The hardest thing about flying is knowing when to say no
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
After over a half a century of flying no one ever died because of my decision not to fly.
Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
In all honesty Cat, I think you're a Saint... I'm more than half way to your "situation" and I've already given up on trying to get an honest answer on ANY subject on these forums... So there's not a chance I'll ever ask a sensitive question like yours here...I really admire you for keeping on tryin'!
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
Cat Driver wrote:As I said some things can be sensitive to some people, when I read Old Fella's post I took it as jest, especially with all the smileys attached.Gross.
However the same blue pills comments are often posted as a put down of the older generation...so it is all in how one thinks.
Gotta have a sense of humor in life or all is to boring and serious. Speaking of old folks that is one thing i do admire about them(like the Cat Driver), their certain humor and not putting themselves above others.......
Outside of blue pills I do sometimes suffer from Brewers-Droop
Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
Old fella:
Getting it "up" is the easy part keeping it "up" ah now that's the hard part.
And those pills? Nothing wrong with a back up plan......
Getting it "up" is the easy part keeping it "up" ah now that's the hard part.
And those pills? Nothing wrong with a back up plan......
Re: May I ask a sensitive question?
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Re: May I ask a sensitive question?

I kid, I kid. But like a previous poster said, you do sometimes come of curmudgeonly.
Old Men, yelling at clouds or not, are a great wealth of information.
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