CpnCrunch wrote:However once a member has been accepted in the past (as Doug Ronan has), that doesn't mean you can terminate him. There is a procedure laid out for removing a membership, and you can only remove a member by having a vote of the membership (same as removing a director).
I happen to remember a situation in which I was serving as a administrative volunteer for an aviation association (~ 800-1000 hours per year) and held a complimentary membership as well as the privilege to give out complimentary memberships during events and in my day to day business. Certain kahoohoo's happened, triggering me to announce my stepping down from my function effective a certain date, well in advance of the expiration of my membership. Remark: I wasn't member elected, I was board appointed with business card and email account within the association.
Despite the fact that two people on the Board of Directors had taken severe offense to my speaking up about certain facts and issues (which in unison with a whole bunch of other people and their discoveries, led to the political demise of the Executive Director as well as the chairman of the board), my complimentary membership was still offered up for renewal.
In other words, "
we'll fight you to the bone, if necessary in court or by lynchmobbing you, but we'll take your money if you are dumb enough to give it to us". Every single attack on me (forum administration profile, infiltration of email communique and badmouthing) happened in absolute secrecy and in such a way that I could not act legally upon it. Side-note: The badmouthing and character defamation continues up to 4 years later, but at least there is no longer any open conflict. My site suffers every single day for what happened then, but such is life if you elect not to go with the flow and create a matter of inconvenience for people.
However, I doubt highly that even people who hated my guts and pure existence at the time, would have had the balls or the stamina to cancel my membership in order to get me out. Its bad form, bad etiquette, bad PR, bad leadership, its' BAD, BAD, BAAAAD! Additionally it is stupid, 99% of the time in violation of bylaws, overstepping of authority, misrepresentation of membership and I fear even a tiny whee bit illegal. Yet, despite dealing with monsters, such was never done to me or anyone I know or have ever met. Its such a milkmaids fix to an inconvenience, its laughable and silly if it could ever stay a secret.
As if nothing had ever happened I received a renewal notice at which time I was respectfully informed that my "privilege" to afford complimentary memberships had ceased and I was no longer eligible for a complimentary membership. At the time I was an extreme problem for certain characters within the association in question and god knows
everything under the sun (including threats of lawsuits) was done to restrict or prevent me from making members aware of ongoing issues. Without a doubt the single one thing that got me out of volunteering or associations in general was those 3 years, during which I met both spectra of aviation associations and was afforded a first hand look behind the curtains.
I remember one instance (I was still a protege and informed of being a board member potential) in which the then sitting chairman of the board informed me about
who gets a seat on the board and what happens to those who object and resist the greater vision. "We make them, and we break them. During the next several months I will strategically replace all the naysayers with proper people, meanwhile grooming each individuals replacement." Just a mere two years after he said that to me, the association was almost buckling under a quarter million dollars worth of lawsuit threats, and nearly hijacked and out of the boards control.
Much later, when the true boo men had been allowed to leave with their dignity and wallets intact (threatening lawsuits for wrongful discharge and being removed from boards they had a "right" to sit on until their terms were up) I found myself
invited to apply for the position of executive director for that very same association and supposedly even made it into the finalists group (8 out of 200+) for closer inspection and further consideration. I later learned details about my and one of the other candidates (also an applicant at the time) applications and what had been done with them, that made me get to within an inch of rescinding my candidacy. At the time, my colleague actually rescinded his, together with a full cancellation of membership.
I know, this is a long text and everyone is tired of the subject, or willing to kill the messenger to make the truth go away, but every association has the leadership it wishes to have. Yes, it is time to move closer together and find the good and promotional items in our industry, but its wrong to shut people up just because you don't want to hear it. I also have no personal quarrel with Mr. Psutka, I remember him as extremely friendly and open-minded back in the day when I started my little grassroots site. It is scary to think what he might have endured over the last several years to be of such hard lines these days.
Silent, stoic and deaf members are just as poisonous to the industry and community as the worst enemy we could ever wish for.
I have no horse in the race, what happens to COPA, AOPA or any of those groups does not cost me a dime out of pocket and no longer any sleep. I just can't stand it when otherwise smart and engaged people who have the
option and the power to change things choose to remain silent and do nothing, just to avoid the bumper car ride that ensues from open and honest conflict. We won't need regulations and citizen groups, if 95% of our community is "along for the ride". Pay up, sit here and shut up. Take the money out of it, and the nonmember essentially gets the same treatment. Why pay money, then? Just to belong to some club?
It is wrong for us to stand by (member or not, even we "free-riders" and "aviation enemies" still have a right to an opinion) and let things like this happen. The rats tail on stuff like this is more dangerous and exposing than the whole scary looking rat. We don't need it, and if not for the current and leaving generation of pilots, then at least for future generations, I hope we can do better than this. Tl,dr or not - I am resting my case and go back to knitting and growing mushrooms now.

Integrity Is A Choice. It is consistently choosing the simplicity and purity of truth over popularity. ~ Unknown