Very classy, and well said.Cat Driver wrote:I would be up front with said student and use an example such as playing a musical instrument, I like music but just do not have the ability to learn to play musical instruments.
I would be very clear in explaining that said student may never grasp the how to fly and that is nothing to be ashamed of, as we are all different.
So as not to let the student down and really destroy their self worth I would tell them that even though I have given my opinion the decision to quit flying or to continue is entirely up to the individual and by all means keep trying if that is what makes them happy.
As a token of my sincerity I would offer to be their full time instructor as often as my time constraints allowed and I would do my best to turn around whatever problem was preventing the student from progressing..
That is how I would handle it.
I have had to do that several times in my career, and although it has never been "pleasant", the student always seemed to appreciate it. In some cases, it seemed like a relief -- a weight taken off their shoulders.
I do have to admit, if has gotten to that point where I would have this discussion with them (and it was never a surprise to the student in question) I discontinued training altogether. I could no longer take their money (even if just for the aircraft).
*In some cases*, I did add is that we are all at different points in our lives... if at some later time (when they have possibly resolved some issues in thier lives) if they wished to come back and try again, to look me up.
-Guy


