Dar, I’m convinced many of them do not even know how to look forward or move forward.PilotDAR wrote: ↑Sun Jun 20, 2021 8:01 pmIt's a choice, not an instruction. Some people have been dealt a very unfair hand in life, and may even be able to identify the dealer. My experience, for better or worse, is to play the best hand you can, without looking back [much].So, in a word, suck it up princess?
I like the saying: "Fix the problem, not the blame". An airplane, a statue, a name of an institution were not the problem. "Fixing" them will not result in the problem being fixed.
For my own experience, if I think to blame someone for something, or think about an unpleasant event - I have to think back the the unpleasant event! As much as I can, I choose to not do that.
As I said, if someone cannot make that choice, they do have my sympathy, but they won't have my help in removing an inanimate object, only tangentially associated with the event.
You and I live near a huge city with unlimited mental health resources. They live in a place where the water doesn’t work right, and maybe everyone they have ever known went through abuse. This is why the addiction rates and youth suicide rates are so high on reserves.
They don’t know how to move on. Yeah it’s a necessary choice but it’s a really hard one. All I am saying.
Then add an exploitative media that is only looking for clickbait articles…really sad.